The struggle is real for many of us

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In today's world, many people prioritize their individual needs and desires over the well-being of the collective. This mindset has led to a culture of apathy and indifference, where people are less inclined to take responsibility for the problems facing our society.

"If someone is falling behind in life, you don't have to remind them. Believe me, they already know. If someone is unhealthy, they know. If someone is struggling in their relationships, with money, with self-image, they know.

It's what consumes their thoughts each day. What you need to do for those who are struggling is not to reprimand, but to encourage. Tell them what's good about their lives, and show them the potential that you see. Love them where they are.

When we can't see clearly for ourselves, we need others to speak greatness over us. People don't need you to tell them what is wrong with their lives, they already know. They need you to reassure them they can still make it right.

To heal yourself, fix your old toxic patterns and achieve what you choose to focus on."

When we prioritize the well-being of others alongside our own, we create a sense of interconnectedness that can lead to more meaningful and fulfilling relationships.

When we share our knowledge with others, we have the opportunity to make a positive impact on their lives. By providing practical solutions and insights, we can help people overcome obstacles and achieve their goals.

Whist this is emotionally satisfying, it seldom yields positive outcomes because 50% of the time, people are not honest with their self assessment. I will opt for a direct approach, let’s talk about the problem, identify it’s root cause, pray and brainstorm solutions and fix it.

Real talk is necessary but let us not impose, give space and do not break too much of each other's personal privacy.

Smart-shaming and putting idiocy on a pedestal

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No to smart-shaming and anti-intellectualism. Smart shaming is the pinnacle of passive aggressive arrogance.

Education is viewed as an avenue out of poverty. This was how parents would inculcate into the minds of the children. Looks like it’s still a long haul for the whole nation.

We value education as part of our culture. This explains why a big crowd is drawn during UPCAT. Recently though, as the state of education declines and access to good education became even more dismal, smart shaming has become the norm.

But why do we smart shame, and put idiocy on a pedestal?

It's our story of the monkey and the turtle and proverbs like "matalino man ang matsing..." some of the earliest references of smart shaming? Smart people are always the contra-bida?

Do we value education because it imparts knowledge and skills to people, or more because it's a useful signal that people can use for their careers/jobs.

Karamihan sa atin ayaw kinokorek. Ang laki ng ego, ayaw tanggapin ang pagkakamali, kahit scientific information na ibininibigay mo. Kaya yung tama, sila pang minamasama.

It became the norm when Pres Duterte became president. We had similar sentiments back in the day. Remember the Ramos-Erap-GMA transition?

There was an interview either during campaign or election season, and the respondent was asked by the reporter why they voted or would vote for Erap. The answer was along the lines of: "Nasubukan na natin yung matalino, subukan naman natin yung iba."

Then another episode during GMA's admin (post Garci), another on-the-street interview asked for sentiment, and it went along the lines of: "yan ang mahirap pag masyadong matalino ang nasa pwesto."

Everyone seems to support critical thinking, not realizing that it also means willing to be criticized yourself. Give some, get some. That's how it works.

Stories of corruption don't consistently enrage people, less so these days.

I think it's because our culture encourages conformity/collectivism. And in a country with 90% learning poverty, intelligence makes one stand out, and this tends to irk many people.

But note that in some other collectivist societies, intelligence is highly valued and celebrated. 

Maybe this needs a proper study: define smart-shaming first, try to quantify it across countries/cultures, then identify its correlates/determinants.

30-day promotional campaign on social media about a new restaurant

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Here's an example of a 30-day promotional campaign on social media about a new restaurant:

Day 1:Introduce the restaurant and its cuisine on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter. Use high-quality photos of the food and tag the location of the restaurant.

Day 2:Create a Facebook event for the restaurant's grand opening and encourage followers to RSVP and share the event with their friends.

Day 3:Share a behind-the-scenes video on Instagram Stories, showcasing the kitchen and staff preparing food.

Day 4:Post a mouth-watering photo of the restaurant's signature dish and ask followers to guess the ingredients.

Day 5:Offer a discount code exclusively for social media followers, which they can use on their first visit to the restaurant.

Day 6:Share a customer review or testimonial on all social media platforms, highlighting the quality of the food and service.

Day 7:Run a poll on Twitter or Instagram, asking followers to vote for their favorite dish from the menu.

Day 8:Share a recipe for one of the restaurant's popular dishes on Facebook and Instagram, encouraging followers to try making it at home.

Day 9:Host a Q&A session on Twitter, where followers can ask the chef or staff about the restaurant's menu or food preparation.

Day 10:Share a photo or video of the restaurant's interior design, highlighting its unique features.

Day 11:Host a food challenge on Instagram, asking followers to create their own version of the restaurant's signature dish and tag the restaurant in their post.

Day 12:Share a fun fact about the restaurant or its cuisine on Facebook and Twitter, encouraging followers to learn more.

Day 13:Collaborate with a food blogger or influencer, and ask them to review the restaurant on their social media platforms.

Day 14:Post a photo or video of the restaurant's happy hour specials, encouraging followers to visit during those hours.

Day 15:Share a customer's story about their experience at the restaurant, highlighting any special moments or memories.

Day 16:Run a social media contest, asking followers to share their favorite dish from the restaurant and tag the restaurant in their post. The winner receives a free meal.

Day 17:Share a photo or video of the restaurant's outdoor seating area, highlighting the ambiance and view.

Day 18:Offer a free dessert or drink to anyone who follows the restaurant's social media accounts and shows their phone to the server.

Day 19:Share a photo or video of the restaurant's staff, highlighting their hard work and dedication.

Day 20:Host a live cooking demonstration on Facebook or Instagram, showing followers how to prepare one of the restaurant's dishes.

Day 21:Share a photo or video of the restaurant's take-out packaging, highlighting its sustainability and eco-friendliness.

Day 22:Create a Facebook album showcasing the restaurant's most popular dishes and encouraging followers to try them all.

Day 23:Share a customer's photo of their meal on Instagram, highlighting the beauty and presentation of the dishes.

Day 24:Run a social media poll, asking followers to vote for the restaurant's best dessert or cocktail.

Day 25:Share a recipe for a cocktail or mocktail on Facebook and Instagram, encouraging followers to try making it at home.

Day 26:Host a trivia night on Twitter, where followers can win a free meal or discount code for answering restaurant-related questions.

Day 27:Share a photo or video of the restaurant's delivery options, highlighting their convenience and ease of use.

Day 28:Offer a discount code exclusively for social media followers, which