Friday, August 14, 2015
Soulmate-Searching Tips from the “Psychic Matchmaker”
Finding true love isn’t easy. Despite the available means with today’s technology, many people still wonder if and when they’ll find their perfect match.
In her new Eve series, Psychic Matchmaker, Deborah Graham uses her special gift to help connect people psychically with their true soulmate. She has helped hundreds of people – both believers and skeptics - find the love of their lives and believe in love once more. While Deborah’s unconventional methods may not be for everyone, she has some tips that could make the soulmate-search much easier:
1. Acknowledge your positive and negative energy.
The “love myself first” movement has a point - finding true love involves more self-evaluation than simply finding a person that fits an ideal set of criteria. Knowing who you are – your strengths, weaknesses, faults, tendencies, your general well-being or energy as Deborah calls it, etc. – is one step ahead in finding someone who needs to get you. Moreover, know the difference of what you think you want and what is actually good for you. If you don’t know who you are and the things you need in life, then don’t bother finding someone to put up with your confused state of being at all.
2. Let go of your baggage.
Admit it. Everyone who might be looking for love must have had his or her piece when it comes to pain. Heartbreaks might not be in the same degree or intensity for everybody, but in order to find anyone at all, acknowledging this negative energy and then letting the baggage go is the best way to let someone in. Stop letting your tragic stories turn into issues that can prevent you from opening yourself up to another person.
3. Be open to find your match.
When a stranger comes to you and tells you that she might know someone you might be interested in, would you believe her? This is what Deborah does and, chances are, if she came to you with that proposition, you’ll shun her - and the opportunity to find your soulmate. Stay open. Make yourself available for any chance to meet or fall with anyone at any unexpected time and at any unusual place.
4. Let love surprise you.
When you make yourself emotionally-available, a series of surprises could come next. But you don’t have to expect anything, because that’s the beauty of surprises: you simply allow it to happen. Sure, you might have met the person in a speed-dating event or your meet-ups might seem forced through someone else, but when you learn to suspend your expectations, that person might actually surprise you in ways you were not able to imagine.
Need to learn more? Witness Deborah Graham get in touch with souls seeking the love they need in her new series, Psychic Matchmaker, premiering this Tuesday, August 18, at 9 p.m., on EVE.