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In life’s intricate journey toward growth, peace, and fulfillment, not everyone walking beside you is meant to stay. Some companions wear the disguise of loyalty, only to be parasites to your purpose. Others will dim your light just to feel better about their own. Recognizing and walking away from these people isn’t cruelty — it’s survival.
Here are seven dangerous types of people you must identify and avoid if you’re serious about protecting your energy, your peace, and your future:
1. THE WHEELBARROW PEOPLE: The Relentless Dependents
They drain your strength, time, and spirit. These people never move unless you push them. They depend on your energy to function — not occasionally, but constantly. They’ll hand you their problems as if solving them was your purpose. They expect you to carry their load and guide their direction — while they contribute nothing to your journey.
Warning Sign: After helping them once, you’ll find yourself stuck in an endless cycle of doing their heavy lifting.
Bottom Line: Wheelbarrow people don’t walk with you — they ride on you. Cut the rope.
2. THE MOSQUITO PEOPLE: The Energy Vampires
They show up when they smell opportunity, praise you when there’s something to gain — and vanish or turn toxic when there isn’t. These parasites will suck all the goodness from your life and leave you infected with doubt, bitterness, and confusion.
Reality Check: Just like the real mosquito, they buzz around only to benefit from your blood, then gift you with spiritual “malaria.”
Bottom Line: Mosquito people are not friends. They’re opportunists with hidden fangs.
3. THE SCAFFOLDING PEOPLE: The Controlling “Helpers”
At first, they may look like allies — they helped you once, offered support, lifted you up. But now, they expect control. Because they once assisted you, they feel entitled to direct your life, decisions, and destiny. They want you dependent. They fear your independence.
Hard Truth: Scaffolding is useful during construction — but dangerous when kept after the building stands.
Bottom Line: Scaffolding people served their purpose. Don’t mistake their past help as a lifelong debt.
4. THE CROCODILE PEOPLE: The Smiling Saboteurs
They lurk with smiles, but behind those fake grins are teeth sharper than razors. These people get close just to study your weaknesses. The moment you open up, they store your secrets like ammunition, waiting for the perfect time to use them against you. They gossip, backstab, and manipulate with surgical precision.
Don’t Be Fooled: Crocodile tears often mask killer intentions.
Bottom Line: Crocodile people don’t want to heal with you — they want to harm you. Quietly. Strategically.
5. THE CHAMELEON PEOPLE: The Jealous Impersonators
They pretend to be your friend, your supporter, your “day one.” But beneath the smiles lies resentment. They study your wins not to celebrate them — but to copy them, sabotage them, or outdo them. They’re in silent competition, masking envy with shallow compliments.
Truth Bomb: These people will clap for you in public — and curse you in private.
Bottom Line: Chameleon people aren’t allies — they’re undercover enemies in disguise.
6. THE NAYSAYER PEOPLE: The Dream Assassins
You speak your dreams, they speak doubts. You show your passion, they show pessimism. Their favorite pastime? Telling you why it can’t work. They’ll drown your spark with words of discouragement and feed your fears with every failed attempt.
Cold Reality: These people don’t dream — so they can’t understand yours.
Bottom Line: Naysayers don’t need to be convinced. They need to be ignored.
7. THE GARBAGE PUSHER PEOPLE: The Purveyors of Poison
These are the carriers of chaos — always the first to spread bad news, gossip, slander, and toxicity. They thrive on negativity and look for the next unfortunate story to share. Their conversations are littered with complaints, doom, and judgment.
🗑️ Truth Alert: If your peace vanishes after talking to them — you’ve just been dumped on.
Bottom Line: Garbage pushers don’t just bring the trash — they are the trash.
Final Word: Examine Your Circle. Protect Your Space. Elevate Your Life.
Look around. Who walks with you? Who holds your hand — and who holds you back? Who feeds your spirit — and who feasts on your energy?
It’s your life. Your growth depends on the people you surround yourself with.
Don’t be afraid to cut ties. Sometimes, the most powerful move you can make is to walk away from the wrong crowd and step boldly into the light of your purpose.
You owe yourself peace. Choose it. Defend it. Demand it.
And never apologize for leaving toxic behind.
Am I communicating?
Yes. Loud and clear.
Now it’s your turn: who do you need to let go of today?

Ross is known as the Pambansang Blogger ng Pilipinas - An Information and Communication Technology (ICT) Professional by profession and a Social Media Evangelist by heart.
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