The struggle is real for many of us

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In today's world, many people prioritize their individual needs and desires over the well-being of the collective. This mindset has led to a culture of apathy and indifference, where people are less inclined to take responsibility for the problems facing our society.

"If someone is falling behind in life, you don't have to remind them. Believe me, they already know. If someone is unhealthy, they know. If someone is struggling in their relationships, with money, with self-image, they know.

It's what consumes their thoughts each day. What you need to do for those who are struggling is not to reprimand, but to encourage. Tell them what's good about their lives, and show them the potential that you see. Love them where they are.

When we can't see clearly for ourselves, we need others to speak greatness over us. People don't need you to tell them what is wrong with their lives, they already know. They need you to reassure them they can still make it right.

To heal yourself, fix your old toxic patterns and achieve what you choose to focus on."

When we prioritize the well-being of others alongside our own, we create a sense of interconnectedness that can lead to more meaningful and fulfilling relationships.

When we share our knowledge with others, we have the opportunity to make a positive impact on their lives. By providing practical solutions and insights, we can help people overcome obstacles and achieve their goals.

Whist this is emotionally satisfying, it seldom yields positive outcomes because 50% of the time, people are not honest with their self assessment. I will opt for a direct approach, let’s talk about the problem, identify it’s root cause, pray and brainstorm solutions and fix it.

Real talk is necessary but let us not impose, give space and do not break too much of each other's personal privacy.